Scorpio October 23-November 21

Scorpio in Love

Scorpio is the fixed-water sign indicating still waters that run very,
very deep. There is an intense and smoldering sexuality and sensuality
within every Scorpio as there's is the sign that rules lust and sex.
There are three very different types of Scorpio from the scorpion, to
the eagle to either the phoenix or the dove (depending on which
symbolism one prefers). Yet each will have a profound depth and
attraction to love and what accompanies love in their life. They are
passionate when they invest their feelings and life is never boring
with a Scorpio lover. They thrive when they feel secure and stable
within a relationship and enjoy the physical gifts of being in love as
much as the emotional ones. They are mysterious...always.... and
you'll never know what is on your Scorpio Lovers mind.... except when
it is being expressed through their passion. They are watchful, quiet
and dedicated mates who can be as protective of the ones they love as
they are of their own vulnerable emotions and feelings. They tend to
be the dominate one in any relationship even if it is done very on
inherently below the surface levels as feeling in control of a
Relationship is one of the ways they can invest their hearts. They
have a notorious jealousy and possessiveness that has been well earned
in Scorpio-Scorpios but which turns into an unequaled level of trust
and faith in the eagle and the phoenix/dove.

Scorpio Sexuality

Scorpio is the sign that rules sexuality and the powers of lust. But
their passion is only as deep and profound as it is because it is
connected with the ultimate gift of sex...life. And these are the
beings unafraid to face either life or death and that fearlessness
translates into their sexual expressions. They can reach the highest
highs or the lowest lows in whatever passion they pursue and they are
the most intense, uninhibited and dynamic lovers in the zodiac. It
comes with deep attachment and needs and a driving urge to come to
terms with the enormity of life.

The long-term story

Scorpios require a solid security within a relationship without
feeling that they have a doormat as a mate. This is precarious balance
and is learned over time. The longer a relationship lasts with a
Scorpio...the more secure it tends to become. They are naturally
suspicious (remember they feel and see things the rest of us work to
ignore) and with that depth comes the need for some equally powerful
self-protective mechanisms. Their insecurity and jealousy are by
products of self-preservation. Scorpios like to be in control and are
very seldom found in subservient roles unless they've opted to move
into that spot. They need passionate mates who can keep up with their
desires and they need someone capable of both maintaining a loyalty
and their own sense of individuality in order to keep the relationship
balanced. They are basically homebodies feeling most comfortable when
they are within their own domains. They despise being surprised,
embarrassed or humiliated and retaliate with swiftness...and strength.
Scorpios are capable of some amazing turn around and growth. Even a
Scorpio who seems entrenched in the scorpion phase can suddenly and
dramatically grow wings and sail up into the heavens. Never under
estimate their powers of rejuvenation on physical, spiritual or
emotional planes.

Positive Traits in Love

Loyal, supportive, protective, and generous with their strength and
knowledge, humble, quiet, unshakable, passionate, encompassing.

Negative traits

Jealousy, possessiveness, and obsessive, angry, suspicious,
mistrusting, secretive and unreliable

What Scorpio likes

Mystery, Secrets, Privacy, Trust/loyalty, Sensuality/passion,
Strength, Knowing where they stand, being acknowledged
Honesty/integrity

What Scorpio Dislikes

Surprises, Lying and deceit, Apathy, Being analyzed/questioned, being
'understood', Excessive compliments, Insincerity Being embarrassed,
Passivity

Scorpio Love Keywords

Intense, compelling, magnetic, sexual, sensual, intriguing, profound,
loyal, tenacious, possessive, jealous, obsessive, bad tempered,
secretive.