Aquarius January 20-February 18

Aquarius in Love

Aquarius is the fixed-air sign. They are progressive, liberal
'thinkers' who also tend to hold onto their thoughts and ideals with
tenacity. (The fixed influence) They are generally more comfortable
with a friendly love partnership where they feel secure enough to
continue pursuing their many varied interests. They are hard to pin
down and even harder to get into a solid commitment but once there
that fixed influence makes them loyal and trustworthy companions.
Albeit with an eclectic influence. Aquarians adore friendships of the
impersonal type and usually have a revolving door of buddies. They can
be completely enchanted by any one of their new acquaintances and the
group they attract runs the gamut from the offbeat and 'odd' to the
powerful and the wealthy. Your Aquarian doesn't judge people by 'what'
they have rather by their principals and actions. Aquarians require
someone pretty secure within themselves as they are inherently self
motivated and need the freedom to pursue their latest ideal or whim.
Yet they can be focused and dedicated to a relationship, especially if
they feel accepted and understood. They delight...in delighting and
they regale in having a companion who is eager to explore the world of
thought and possibilities with them. Freedom fighters with a shared
cause build a bond that the Aquarian will guard with strength and
conviction. They are also tolerant, lacking in jealousy or
possessiveness and will over-look and understand all kinds of human
follies and mistakes from their partner. Once they are hurt
however.... their emotions go off with a flip of the switch that does
not ever.... go back on. Coldness is the opposite of Aquarians
enchanting friendship/commitment.

Aquarius Sexuality

Aquarius is the sign most likely to forget about sex entirely. It
isn't that they don't enjoy it.... they do when they feel comfortable
and secure.... but there are so many other things to explore with
their minds and so little time. When caught in the 'mood' they are
explorative, frisky and playful. They take obvious delight in the
attention their partner gives them. They can be extremely self
conscious about their bodies or their sexuality or completely
uninhibited and sometimes both. The bedroom becomes a playground to
further solidify the bond of friendship that the Aquarian needs in
their life and they are delightful companions when they feel good
about the union and about themselves.

The long-term story:

Lots of open mindedness, freedom to pursue their interests and
constant input to the friendship are the building blocks for
maintaining a long-term relationship with an Aquarian. Remember that
they are the rebels of the zodiac and if they feel they are being
controlled or ignored their defense can be to automatically rebel
against any incoming input from their partner. Their natural instinct
tells them to do the opposite of what is expected. They jump
wholeheartedly into their latest cause but can do about faces so
suddenly it takes ones breath away. It's important to have a 'go with
the flow' system in place and gradually the Aquarian learns to be more
vocal and explanatory about their thoughts, their movements and their
actions. They make dedicated and genuinely sincere and warm mates once
they commit and they possess the spark that can keep the friendship a
dynamic and ever growing platform to journey into eternity on.

Positive Traits in Love

Playful, friendly, spontaneous, open minded, caring, devoted, liberal,
understanding, tolerant, benevolent.

Negative traits

Erratic, undependable, self oriented, cold, aloof, mean, self
centered, unable to commit, judgmental, fickle.

What an Aquarius likes

Friendship, Freedom, Intellectual stimulation, Camaraderie, Surprises,
Companionship, Feeling understood and Emotional safety

What an Aquarius Dislikes

Jealousy, Possessiveness, Control, Ego plays, Narrow mindedness, being
ridiculed, Routines, and Fighting/violence Inequality, Being taken for
granted being understood (note: this makes the Likes list as
well...they're unique but you already know that)

Aquarius Love Keywords

Friendly, charming, open minded, liberal, accepting, non-judgmental,
playful, spontaneous, erratic, eccentric, undependable, non-committal,
aloof.