Pisces February 19-March 20

Pisces in Love

Pisces is the mutable water sign and very much exist in their own
universe, tuned into the emotional, receptive qualities of life that
most of us cannot see, touch nor feel. In love they are dream filled
and romantic, full of enchanted visions and hopeful fantasies. They're
eager to share their thoughts and reveries when they feel secure,
understood and appreciated. Of all the signs Pisces needs the most
encouragement to feel true within themselves and to learn the validity
of their own thoughts and needs. They make the most delightful
companions and are generally soft, gentle and easy going, especially
if they have a role model to look up to within the relationship. This
is a delicate balance that Pisces learns to control as they go through
life as their projections onto their mate can be helpful if it
encourages them to motivate their own lives and resources but can turn
into tenacious co-dependency if the Pisces refuses to embrace their
own lives, needs and thoughts. They can be confusing creatures never
able to define their roles within the relationship and constantly
turning to sources outside of the union for definition and
explanation. This can slowly erode the bond between the
lovers/partners as the partner. A Pisces encouraged to find and
embrace their answers within themselves and one who has learned to
trust their own thoughts, feelings and perceptions make one of the
most loving, sensual and devoted mates their is.

Pisces Sexuality

Pisces sexuality is always wrapped around those inner worlds they
exist in and becomes an emotional experience that can take them on
voyages into ecstasy and passion. But because they do exist within
this world where things are nebulous, mystical and emotion oriented if
they are projecting outwards to find validity of what they are seeing
and feeling inside rather than combining the experience of the
physical intimacy with the thoughts and dreams they can feel
disappointed...or saddened. If they've learned to simply using what is
inside to inspire their participation in the literal reality based
world they can take their lover on their enchanted voyages with them
and create an exciting and enchanting sexual companionship.

The long-term story

There is a certain amount of inner strength combined with outer
strength that is needed when involved long term with a Pisces, as they
must learn to become their own sources of joy, inspiration and
answers. A weak mate who goes along with every Piscean whim or fantasy
is as destructive as a mate who cannot see the validity of those
things they are experiencing internally. One can create a union with
no solidity or reality underneath of it and the other can cause the
Pisces to further doubt their own truth and inner strength. At the
best the Pisces brings to the relationship a touch of all that is
universal and mysterious. They are dreamy, poetic and romance filled
beings that make life a true sojourn through the world of feelings and
passions. At worst they release any semblance of inner belief and
become attached to the partner or other form of projection in an
attempt to capture outside. What goes on inside. Positive Traits in
Love: Playful, friendly, spontaneous, open minded, caring, devoted,
liberal, understanding, tolerant, benevolent.

Negative traits

Erratic, undependable, self oriented, cold, aloof, mean, self
centered, unable to commit, judgmental, fickle.

What a Pisces likes

Romance, Feeling appreciated, Stability, Feeling needed, Mystical
settings/enchantment, Being encouraged to dream, Sharing
thoughts/dreams, Having their input valued, A role model, Feeling
loved

What a Pisces Dislikes

Feeling vulnerable, Feeling alone/unloved, Having no goals to project
towards, Feeling invalidated, Being ignored Crude/harsh behavior,
Noisy scenes/displays, Having no dreams, Having no sense of structure

Pisces Love Keyword

Mystical, enchanting, emotional, loving, devoted, reverent, creative,
confused, depressed, irresponsible, goal-less, lack of motivation or
push, co-dependency issues.