Gemini May 21-June 21

Gemini in Love

Gemini is the mutable air sign ruled by the planet Mercury and that
describes much of their lively and thought oriented approach to love.
They treasure being mentally captivated, excited and dynamically
active and the mates they choose tend to be friends, first and
foremost, and lovers second. Being able to share and discuss new
thoughts, new ideals and everything they conceive and learn is an
important quality they need to have in place within a relationship.
This is the talkative, communicative sign and their minds are
constantly sifting through information. As such they often speak
before they think and their words, usually not intended to hurt, can
fall flat when they fail to carry through on an intention or promise.
A lover often feels left behind and unimportant as the Gemini
discovers a fascinating new subject or person to explore and words
from the past become empty and hurtful. At their best, however, a
Gemini lover is the most fascinating, joyful and enjoyable partner of
the zodiac. When that is backed up by their own feelings of wholeness
and completeness (often the very thing they are seeking from a
partnership) they are dynamic and loyal mates.

Gemini Sexuality

Sex is a mind voyage for most Gemini's and they experience the height
of their passion through their thoughts and what the feelings mean to
them. They are open-minded and experimental, yet not necessarily
driven by passion to try out the new techniques and adventures, but
more out of the hungry curiosity that propels them to
simply...discover something. They bring their wit and laughter
directly into the bedroom and can be disheartened (and even shocked)
that their partners may not always go along with their sense of humor.
Their lust and their needs tend to come and go with speed and
suddenness and they can turn off as quickly as they turn on. Gemini's
seldom wait for anyone and that includes a lover who takes a little
more time to feel stimulated.

The long-term story

Gemini's needs friendship, companionship and a partner, who can share
their mind explorations and journeys as deeply as they need a lover
and heart mate. They generally need someone who is secure or open
enough to not feel threatened by their quickly changing interests or
whole hearted experiments but one who can also help them ground out to
penetrate one of their intrigues in depth. Because Gemini is a dual
sign they often project part of them when they are attracted to a mate
and the relationship becomes an external way for them to work towards
their merging of their two very different sides. This polarity creates
an intriguing and exciting spark in the beginning of the relationship
but can burn out once the Gemini has 'owned' up to its other half or
has grown bored and retreated back within self.

Positive Traits in Love

Joyful, good-natured, broad minded, experimental, radiant, friendly,
enthusiastic, flexibility, gentleness

Negative traits

Unreliability, fickleness, duality, insincerity, self-focus,
restlessness, critical and temperamental

What a Gemini likes

Intellectual stimulation, Ideas and thoughts, new trends to
investigate, Friends and socializing, talking, Sharing ideals,
Learning, Upbeat, lively mates

What a Gemini Dislikes

Routines and ruts, Feeling ignored. Being confined. Apathy. Being the
one to make all the decisions. Slowness. Being directed.

Gemini Love Keywords

Friendly, mind oriented, spontaneous, verbal, joyful, experimental,
open minded, enthusiastic.