Monday, March 07, 2005

Taurus April 20-May 20

Taurus in Love

Taurus is a stable and earthy sign and their partnerships require an
equally strong and centered base. There is a definite serious approach
to life, which is held by every Taurus in one degree or another and a
partner who can at least understand this facet of them is important.
They make generous, loyal and extremely supportive mates when they
feel the relationship is true and secure but getting them to that
point generally takes a great deal of time and effort. Taurus
cherishes waiting, watching and being assured of something's value
before they invest their heart and feelings. They will retreat at any
sign of flakiness or instability and once a Taurus retreat getting
them back to the point they started at is difficult, if not
impossible. Although they are slow to trust and give once they do
their trust are almost a magical thing and very little can shake it.
Even when the generosity is not earned a Taurus deeply committed will
very often hold on to the smallest shred of hope that everything is
all right. As partners they are homebodies and enjoy their
surroundings and all things, which they can possess and embrace. They
intuitively collect and protect and their 'people' often fall into
this category. A Taurus expects loyalty and support from their mate
and also to be the boss in the relationship.

Taurus Sexuality

Earthy, sensual and caring are hallmarks of Taurus sexuality. For
Taurus sex is a natural, healthy and all-important part of their
relationship and they immerse themselves in it. Love and sex are one
and the same to a Taurus and it is only when firmly committed that
most can truly let go and enjoy. Bedroom Olympics and exciting kinky
escapades is not their cup of tea and they tend to hold onto their
personal favorites. But they believe in sharing their pleasure and
work diligently to make sure their partner enjoys the passion as much
as they do.

The Long-term story

Keeping it together over the long term requires a thorough
understanding of the Taurean ways. As a fixed earth sign they are
almost immovable, especially if they feel they are being forced into
something. Knowing their ways and encouraging any change ever so
slowly assures the relationship of moving forward and remaining
vibrant. It takes a great deal to truly anger a Taurus once it is in
love but disloyalty will usually be the ultimate factor. Yet as slow
as they are to attach they are equally slow to detach and break-ups
tend to hang on eternally. Once a Taurus truly closes its heart,
however, there is very little chance they will open back up.

The Problem Zone

In a relationship with a Taurus most of the troubles will emerge over
jealousy, possessiveness and inability to change. They can be
immovable forces when they so desire and if they have decided they are
perfectly happy with something exactly as it is no one can force them
to change. There is a tendency for them to see people they love as
cherished personal objects and this can turn into a very strong
jealousy factor. Letting go can also be a problem for the same
reasons.

Positive traits in love

Loyal, dedicated, generous, protective, caring, doting, understanding,
stability

Negative Traits in love

Jealousy, possessiveness, control, immobility, over-seriousness

A Taurus Likes

Feeling secure, Being pampered, Kept promises, Sensibility, Being on
time, Together time at home, Sharing good meals, Unhurried affection,
Commitments, Stability in a mate, Getting special gifts.

A Taurus Dislikes

Being hurried, being told what to do, Flightiness in a partner,
Unexpected changes in plans, loud, noisy party scenes, Careless or
unappealing environments, Forgetfulness in a mate.

Taurus Love Keywords

Loyal, stable, sentimental, sexual, loving, possessive, jealous, controlling

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